I have never met a happy man who has not decided what his purpose is. It’s not a concept it’s a feeling. Many famous mystics have written that there is nothing you cannot endure if you understand and choose why! The fact that this conversation has been an obsessive part of my life and everyone I have ever worked with makes me wonder why we don’t talk about it more. Without purpose we don’t know how to get up each day. Without purpose it just feels like pain. Yet people with clear context smile through tears. What is the fundamental difference? What have they found? In my ten years of working with people coupled with my personal life obsession I can see something assuredly. Our purpose is always lying in the adversity we are facing. We feel lost in turmoil, yet it is your own plan presenting its perfection. The things you face are self created to hopefully bring what you planned into this world. Sadly most of us get lost in the pain, returning another life hoping to try bring our gift once more. With a simple map one can understand what it is you are attempting as a soul, and trust me it’s not always what you expected. You need purpose, you know you do. You might not actually be sick, anxious and depressed you might just be overwhelmed by the messages from you soul trying to remind you of the plan. You might just feel pointless because you missed the message. Nothing has gone wrong; you planned these events to birth a wisdom or a skill of some sort. What is yours? Will you go down complaining or will you bravely analyse the perfection of it all?